Sex+ Embodiment

There are thousands of self help books and therapists out there to tell you how to get what you need and want out of sex and relationships. But if you're not a neurotypical, cis-het, monogamous, vanilla or straight person (or even "just" a traumatised one) their messages can point you in the wrong direction or even feel shaming, callous or confusing.

After many years of over-committing and burning myself out, I found healing in somatic therapy. I’m a neurodivergent relationship anarchist who connects deeply with issues around sexual trauma and the healing power of reconnecting with our bodies, our sexuality and our own pleasure.

As a Somatica sex and relationship coach (core training graduate) and somatic sexologist, I'm endlessly fascinated by the connection between mind, body and pleasure and the ways our society has repressed that. I am also certified in Integrative Somatic Trauma Therapy and Polyvagal Yoga for Trauma Healing. With several years of experience as both a rope bottom and rigger, and many years of other BDSM practices, I love to share and help people explore in a safe(r) container. 

I use experiential somatic (body-based) practices to help you figure out your desires, boundaries, needs, kinks, identity and relationship styles and how to communicate them. We can work through talk, breath work, movement, play, and real relationship practice to give you the tools you need to design your adventure in pleasure, passion and partnership in a way that meets who you are authentically and without judgment. No escalators required.